Sitha Maliwa:
In a stunning confession that’s shaken social media and Mzansi’s cultural foundations, reality star and former sangoma Gogo Skhotheni has revealed she gave her ex-partner, Monde Shange, the money to pay her lobola.
Yes, you read that right = she paid for herself! Skhotheni didn’t hold back during a recent social media confession, delivering a truth bomb that left many gasping for air:
“He couldn’t afford it. I wanted to be with him. So I helped. I gave him the money to pay lobola for me.”
As the news made its way across TikTok, X (formerly Twitter), and WhatsApp groups, reactions poured in faster than amapiano beats on a Friday night. While some fans praised her for standing by her man, others were left questioning Monde’s manhood – and their entire belief in traditional values.
“This is a disgrace to our culture,” wrote one user. “Lobola is supposed to show that a man is ready – spiritually, emotionally, and financially.”
But others saw a different side:
“Yoh, she’s a real one! That’s love. She invested in her future.”
Known for her spiritual gifts, controversial reality TV moments, and outspoken personality, Tumi Motsoeneng (aka Gogo Skhotheni) has never been afraid to defy norms. But this time, she’s not just bending tradition = she’s breaking it in half.
Their relationship, once the envy of fans, has since ended. Now, questions arise:
Was Monde ever really committed?
Did Gogo pay the price of love = literally and emotionally?
This revelation has sparked a deeper debate: In the age of shared bills and Instagram proposals, is it still necessary for a man to pay lobola? Or has love evolved beyond wallets and cows?
Has Gogo Skhotheni empowered women to own their love stories, or opened a dangerous door that disrespects sacred traditions? – @NewsSA_Online
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